For all the smack I talk, mostly via inner monologue because I really don't like conflict or hurting people I like, I'm generally a happy person. When I am stressed out, bummed out, or just plain pissed off, I really do try to keep it to myself. You catch more flies with honey, right? Well, sometimes you just have to let it out. So that's what made me think of Bitch and Moan Monday. Seems like I am at my worst Monday mornings, and heaven knows I can't vent to my husband...he's one of those typical males that wants to fix everything instead of just listening. I tell him about the cell phone guy that was rude to me, he doesn't just listen and agree that it was the rudest thing ever and how dare someone talk to me like that! Instead, he gets the guy fired. Which is really hot and all, but putting someone in the unemployment line doesn't really make me feel better in the long run. So, let's vent here! Leave a me a comment with all of your bitching and moaning. Anything and everything, get it out. We can all vent, read each other's vents, hopefully have a laugh, let it go and move on! I for one can't wait to start this week out right!
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My Monday Bitches and Moans? Being married is hard. I've always been somewhat disillusioned about marriage, considering my parents had pretty much the most disastrous one I've ever even heard of. But when I met the Boo, and had some pretty little babies with him, it made the little-girl-who-wants-to-wear-a-big-white-dress-and-be-a-housewife in me come out in full effect. I wanted the fairytale. And, you know, we pretty much have it. We live in a gorgeous cookie cutter house in the burbs, he has a big important job and I take care of everything on the homefront, two kids, two cats, two cars, and life is good. It really is. But, damn...it's a lot of work. The Boo and I have been through SO much together...and the funny thing is that the calm patch we're in now has almost been harder on us than all the drama. We spent our first five years together dealing with traumatizing and very difficult pregnancies, newborns, job changes, cross country moves, etc. Now that everything is relatively normal, we find ourselves staring at each other like, what the hell do we do now? Luckily, we love each other, and our kids, so we have faith everything will work out. It's just hard work sometimes....especially for me. It's hard to learn how to suppress yourself to make your spouse happy, sometimes going along with things you don't agree with because it's easier than having the fight. So that's my bitching for the morning....being married is hard work. But worth it. Love you hubby.
So now that I laid out my very personal, kind of embarrassing bitch and moan, leave me yours in a comment! I'd love to hear what you have to say. And doing so will earn you another entry into the Freebie Friday giveaway of a $50 Target gift card!
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